When did you feel closest to them this week?
Same argument,different week.
Oshyn notices the loop you two keep replaying, and gives you each one small thing to try.
A little app for the two of you: one daily question you both answer before either can peek, and a weekly check-in your partner doesn't see.
Four quick questions, then you're on the list. Coming to iOS and Android.
Sealed. We'll write when it's your turn.
Oshyn works best with two. Send this to your partner so you get in together.
When did you feel closest to them this week?
Jules is in. Yours opens theirs.
A demo: Jules is made up, and nothing you type leaves this page.
Say it sealed. Open it together.
Every day, one question for both of you. Neither can peek until you've both answered, then both open at once. The rest of the daily layer is light on purpose: a little every day, mostly the fun part.
Morning: the question lands.
One prompt for both of you. Write yours whenever. It stays sealed until theirs is in too.
What's a song that sounds like us?
Opens when you've both answered
Any time: one tap, no words.
Two kinds of nudge, so the sweet ones never get buried under the chores.
Just becauseThinking of youSending loveKeeping things movingFinished my partCan we talk tonight?Evening: it opens. Keep the good ones.
Both answers open at once. The ones worth keeping go into your shared timeline.
Burnt the croissants. Ate them anyway. Sat First ride to the reservoir, 6am. May All week: pebbles, not fire.
Miss a day and a grace day covers it. Nothing burns down, and nobody sells you a streak freeze.
4 days together this week · 1 grace day used
Plus the in-between bits: a three-question guessing game about each other, one shared list for date ideas and life admin, and small, silly badges for showing up, never for being the better partner.
Once a week, it notices the loop you keep replaying.
You each check in on your own: what's better, what's worse, what's stuck. Oshyn looks for the pattern underneath, shows you why it picked it, and gives you each something small and specific to try.
What's stuck?
Ines never reads these words
What's stuck?
Noor never reads these words
One of you reaches, one of you steps back.
It shows up after 9pm, four of the last six weeks. Neither of you starts it. It starts itself.
Why this one first
Name the feeling before the fix
When it starts, say the feeling out loud first. One sentence. Then problem-solve.
Ask for the pause you want
Instead of going quiet, say how long you need and when you'll come back.
A few days later: how did it land?
It helpedMixedIt made things tighterNever got to try
Example week. Noor and Ines are made up; the engine's language is real.
Observations, not verdicts.
The pattern belongs to the relationship, never to one of you. No blame, no "you're doing it wrong," no score for whether you'll last.
Some things get solved. Some get managed.
Solvable Who handles the evening logistics. This one has an answer.
Perpetual How much social time you each want. You manage it, and that's normal.
Honest follow-ups.
"It made things tighter" is a safe answer. Whatever you pick, next week's action adjusts instead of repeating.
Built on what keeps couples close.
Oshyn draws on decades of relationship research. Here are three findings it's built around, each with its study linked so you can read it yourself.
69% of relationship conflicts never fully go away.
Most are rooted in lasting differences, like how much time alone you each need. Couples who do well learn to talk about them kindly, not "win" them. So Oshyn sorts what's solvable from what's perpetual, and never treats a perpetual one as your failure.
The Gottman Institute: solvable vs. perpetual problemsStable couples keep about five good moments for every bad one, even mid-argument.
The good ones are small: a joke, a "you're right," a hand on the shoulder. So most of Oshyn is warm and light: nudges, the daily reveal, memories worth keeping. Your progress tracks warm-to-cold moments, too.
The Gottman Institute: the magic relationship ratioLittle and often. Couples who used a daily couples app more often, and for longer, reported a better relationship.
It was an observational study, so it shows a link rather than proof. But the pattern is why Oshyn asks for a little every day, not a long session every few weeks. There's a grace day too, because life happens.
Aicken et al., JMIR mHealth and uHealth, 2025Your words stay yours. Here's exactly what's shared.
What you write about what's hard stays with you: your weekly check-ins and private chats are never shown to your partner. Daily answers open only once you've both written one. Everything else is either shared on purpose or kept to yourself.
You Only you see
- Your check-in answers
- Your private AI chats
- Your onboarding answers
- Anything still sealed
- How you rated a follow-up
Shared by both
- Nudges
- Memories you add
- Your shared list
- Daily answers you've both opened
- Progress trends and badges
- That a check-in got done
Only they see Them
- Their check-in answers
- Their private AI chats
- Their onboarding answers
- Anything still sealed
- How they rated a follow-up
- Export everything you've put in, any time.
- Leave the shared space and keep your own history.
- Delete a memory and it's gone for both of you.
- Not linked to ad networks or shared with other apps.
However the two of you work.
Start on your own.
One of you is usually keener. That's fine. Solo mode gives you personal reflections and actions, and you invite your partner when it feels right. It won't pretend to know your relationship from one side.
Close, even when you're far.
Home and lock screen widgets show your partner's time and distance, your days together and their latest nudge, all without opening the app. Built for long-distance couples, and nice for everyone else.
A private helper, just for you.
Each of you gets your own AI support. It helps you find the words and get ready for the conversation. It never messages your partner, and it won't tell you what your relationship is.
Examples. Sam, the invite code and the numbers are made up.
Not therapy. On purpose.
Oshyn is for couples who are doing okay and want to do better, or who have drifted a bit and want some structure. It's guidance and connection habits. It doesn't diagnose anything, and it won't predict whether you'll last.
If something feels off, it slows down. When check-ins point to things a growth exercise shouldn't touch, Oshyn pauses the cycle and suggests talking to someone outside the relationship who can help. You can raise a concern yourself at any time, too.
Good questions.
What is Oshyn?
Oshyn is a relationship app for couples. You each answer one daily question that stays sealed until you've both answered, and a weekly private check-in spots the patterns you keep replaying and suggests one small action for each of you.
Does my partner see what I write?
No, not your check-in answers, private AI chats, or anything still sealed. Your partner sees the daily answers you've both opened, what either of you adds to shared spaces like memories and your list, and how things are trending.
Is Oshyn therapy?
No. Oshyn offers general relationship guidance through structured reflection and connection habits. It isn't a substitute for professional therapy or counselling, and if check-ins suggest outside support would help, it says so.
Can I start without my partner?
Yes. Solo mode gives you personal reflections and growth actions, and you can invite your partner whenever you like. Oshyn won't claim to understand your relationship from one side.
Does Oshyn work for long-distance couples?
Yes. Home and lock screen widgets show your partner's local time and distance, your days together and their latest nudge, so you stay close without opening the app.
Who is Oshyn for?
Oshyn is for couples who want to stay close on purpose: new or long-term, same city or long-distance, any genders. It's built for partners who are proactive, not for crisis support.
When is Oshyn available, and on what devices?
Oshyn is coming to iOS and Android. Tap Get started, answer four quick questions, and we'll email you when your invite is ready.
How much does Oshyn cost?
Pricing isn't set yet. Everyone who signs up early hears about it first, before anyone pays anything.
Two seats, one invite.
Tell us a little about the two of you, and we'll write when Oshyn opens on iOS and Android. Then send it to your partner so you both get in together.
Four quick questions, then you're on the list. Coming to iOS and Android.
Sealed. We'll write when it's your turn.
Oshyn works best with two. Send this to your partner so you get in together.